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THERE'S A SPLIT IN ALL OF US
A split between the two needs: AUTONOMY vs. CONNECTION Most relational and personal struggles aswell as what relational trauma evokes...


DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN AN ATTACHMENT BOX
Attachment styles like : 😎 Avoidant Attachment 😱 Anxious Attachment 😵💫 Disorganized Attachment or 🥰 Safe Attachment are...


NERVOUS SYSTEM REGULATION THROUGH RELATING
Since I'm back in Leipzig after my adventurous journey (see posts before) I had some difficulty to land & come to rest. So this morning...


DEEP CURRENTS OF FEELINGS IN THE SEA, BUT NO VISIBLE WAVES
The last years I've been learning alot from Love. I intentionally don't write 'about' Love. But from her. Wheras my relationships until...


DON'T MIX UP TRAUMA-BONDING WITH LOVING
It's often not easy to distinguish the one from the other! And although alot of people will tell you '5 (to 10) signs to spot real/false...


MANAGING THE HUMAN SPLIT
Lately I was struggling with a certain topic. As always, I get that mirrored back in my mentoring sessions. Clients asked me: Where ...


THE HUMAN DILEMMA OF LOVE HAVING NO FORM
My heart cracked open once more yesterday through the love I recieve in all her purity, while the form is not what I wished for. I'm...


LOOK AT THE SHIT WE CALL LOVE THESE DAYS
Some reflection of what is going on in the world: Looking in the world and really opening my eyes to this the last years, I can only...


HOW I DEALT WITH MY ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT PATTERN
Holding myself as an anxious attached person is crucial when it comes to stepping out of toxic and downward spiralling relationship...
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