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THERE'S A SPLIT IN ALL OF US
A split between the two needs: AUTONOMY vs. CONNECTION Most relational and personal struggles aswell as what relational trauma evokes...


WE N E E D OUR NEEDS
Yesterday - again - talking with a client in a therapy session the topic of 'miflife crisis came up'. I say 'again' because when dealing...


FEELING YOU MAKES ME LOVE YOU
I'm learning so much about myself the last weeks. After decades of identifying with certain personality traits, virtues and ...


SURRENDERING INTO GROWTH
The day before I returned to Leipzig after an almost 9 week long adventure. I can honestly say that this time changed me fundamentally...


DON'T MIX UP TRAUMA-BONDING WITH LOVING
It's often not easy to distinguish the one from the other! And although alot of people will tell you '5 (to 10) signs to spot real/false...


MANAGING THE HUMAN SPLIT
Lately I was struggling with a certain topic. As always, I get that mirrored back in my mentoring sessions. Clients asked me: Where ...


LOOK AT THE SHIT WE CALL LOVE THESE DAYS
Some reflection of what is going on in the world: Looking in the world and really opening my eyes to this the last years, I can only...


YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE ALL YOUR SHIT TOGETHER
Accepting that I don't have to have all of my shit together to be a damn good coach was a crucial waypoint in my life recently. Let's be...
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